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Beard Won’t Connect? | Don’t Panic — Try This

Beard Won’t Connect? | Don’t Panic — Try This

If you’ve ever gone through a period where your beard won’t connect, you’ll know that it’s never an enjoyable stage. A non-connecting beard looks a bit strange to the eye, but it also doesn’t feel great on your face, and that’s, without a doubt, the worst part.

Beard Won’t Connect? Take These Steps

In the worst-case scenario, you may be incapable of growing a beard that connects due to your genetics. Be it because your body cannot produce that much facial hair or because you have not reached the age where doing so is possible for your body yet.

Many men have hopes of growing a full beard at some point, but many gradually resign themselves that it likely won’t happen after a certain point, and there’s nothing wrong with that.

However, if you think you’re capable of growing a beard and are here to learn the best ways to go about achieving a fully connecting beard, then I think you’ll find much of the information below helpful.

Here’s an overview of everything that we’ll go over to help you get that beard connecting as soon as possible through changing how to care for your beard and which beard products you use.

  1. Stop Shaving Your Beard
  2. Improve Your Diet
  3. Use Your Hair To Cover Your Beard
  4. Use Your Mustache To Cover Your Beard
  5. Use Better Conditioners
  6. Use Better Shampoo
  7. Use Better Moisturizers
  8. Use Beard Oils And Creams
  9. Try Minoxidil

The majority of the points above are not hard to incorporate into your day-to-day routine if your beard won’t connect, and you don’t have to do all of them either. Of course, doing all of them can yield the best results, but sometimes just a few are all you need to see improvements.

Change How You Care for Your Beard

Man in the mirror using beard cream because his beard won't connect

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There are many ways to take care of your beard to give it a better chance of connecting. However, you might not think of some of them because they go against many guys’ routines when it comes to their beards.

Stop Shaving Your Beard

First and foremost, if you still shave your beard regularly, you’re actively impeding upon your beard’s ability to grow. I recommend shaving your beard once to give it a fresh start and then let it grow on its own as much as it can.

I know it can look and feel unattractive to have a beard growing far beyond the range you’re generally comfortable with, but sometimes you have to let your beard grow to those lengths when your beard won’t connect.

After it makes that initial connection, then you can go back to shaving it regularly. Some sections of your face also take longer to grow facial hair than others.

For example, the hair on the chin can take a week or two to grow, while the hair that runs along the jaw can take several weeks. It varies from person to person, but generally speaking, the longer you go without shaving, the greater chance there is for your beard to connect.

Improve Your Diet

Not many people think about how the stuff they put into their bodies can affect facial hair growth. I was also one of those people for the longest time, and it shocked me to learn just how easily you can improve your beard’s growth by eating the right vitamins for beard growth.

Eating fish, dark leafy greens, seeds, nuts, eggs, avocados, bell peppers, and other fruits and vegetables is the way to go. They have high amounts of vitamin B, A, C, D, and E, all important to facial hair growth.

With the proper vitamin intake, you may see improvements in how quickly your beard grows and how full it becomes.

Now, keep in mind that vitamin intake won’t magically connect your beard overnight or over the course of a few days. That’s a misconception that I have seen many people have, and it only leads to disappointment.

You should view the process of connecting your beard similarly to improving your fitness. Regardless of what routine you use, the process will take time.

Use Your Hair To Cover Your Beard

If your beard won’t connect and you want the most immediate solution, using the hair on top of your head is something to consider strongly. Unfortunately, I can’t speak from personal experience with this method.

But I’ve seen it work for other people with flying colors. Specific haircuts can complement your facial hair enough to make it look like your beard is fully connected.

As much as I would love to go in-depth about different haircut styles you can try, I’m not a hairstyle specialist, and I’m certainly not a barber. Still, I strongly encourage you to consult a barber yourself if this option sounds like it can work for you.

Also, consider waiting until your beard’s grown out a decent bit before attempting this method. It’ll make your barber’s job considerably easier if there’s more hair to work with.

Use Your Mustache To Cover Your Beard

Like using your hair to connect your beard, using your mustache to cover gaps in your beard is a viable tactic. However, it does depend on how thick your mustache is and the position of the gaps in your beard.

Unfortunately, there isn’t much you can do to coax this method into working. Your mustache has to have enough thickness and length to help your beard out. Still, it’s an easy solution to the problem that every guy can at least give a shot.

Switch Up Your Beard Care Products

Various beard care products to fix a beard that won't connect

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Now let’s discuss how beard products come into play with connecting a beard, as they play a significant role in the process.

Use Better Conditioners

If you use cheap conditioners, or worse, no conditioners, you aren’t doing your beard any favors. While beard conditioners don’t directly make your facial hair grow, they help keep your beard healthier.

And the healthier your beard is, the easier it will grow, and the fewer split ends you’ll get once it becomes long.

If the hairs of your beard are stiff and all stuck together, it might not look as complete as it possibly can. Because conditioner detangles hair, you can use it to get your beard hair looking longer, which will help your beard connect.

Use Better Shampoo

Shampoo does help your beard hair grow faster because it encourages hair growth by stimulating the hair follicles on your face. So if you usually shampoo your beard, you’re already reaping the benefits.

However, not all shampoos are equal in how much they can help your facial hair grow. You want to avoid using shampoos that contain sulfates, as they pull a large amount of oil and moisture out of your hair and skin.

It’ll reduce the overall health of your beard even if the shampoo still cleans it, and you don’t want that. You want cleanliness without losing moisture, and shampoos that don’t contain sulfates can provide both.

Use Better Moisturizers

Keeping in line with conditioners and shampoos, moisturizers are the third piece of the trio that you’ll want to use regularly on your beard. I can argue that moisture is more important than actual cleanliness for beard growth, as it’s difficult for hair follicles to grow if they are dehydrated.

Having dry skin and a dry beard are some of the biggest culprits if your beard won’t connect because the beard isn’t healthy enough to grow.

Many people think that washing their face and applying some lotion is enough to moisturize a beard sufficiently, and while that isn’t bad by any means, using an actual beard moisturizer is far better.

Since a beard moisturizer is specifically for beards, its effects in helping your beard connect aren’t something you should underestimate.

Use Beard Oils and Balm

Conditioners, shampoos, and moisturizers are often enough to keep a beard healthy. However, if you’re looking to put a little icing on top of the cake, beard oil and beard balms are your best friends.

It hasn’t been scientific truth that beard oil and beard balm help beards grow, but their visual effects on beards are undeniable. Both beard balm and beard oil can bring out the fulness in a beard similarly to conditioners, just to greater effect.

That’s one of the reasons barbers sometimes use beard balm on their clients. Beard balm especially helps get hairs growing in the direction you want them to go, so it’s one of the most effective ways to connect a nearly fully grown beard.

Try Minoxidil

Minoxidil is something many people commonly use to stimulate hair growth. How well it works largely depends on the individual, as the results vary from extremely good to extremely poor.

Generally speaking, Minoxidil is a proven method for getting hair to grow faster than usual. I have never tried to use Minoxidil myself, so I can’t speak from personal experience, but I haven’t come across any instances where it had seriously harmful effects on someone.

If you already have a full head of hair, I wouldn’t recommend Minoxidil as much because it’s more tailored towards helping hair growth in thin areas.

Still, even if you don’t have a hair that’s thinning, I think Minoxidil is worth trying if you’re trying to get that last bit of beard to connect. Combining it with the effects of beard shampoos, conditioners, moisturizers, oils, and balms can help move the process along.

Again, as with every other point we went over on this list, Minoxidil isn’t a magical thing that will connect your beard for you immediately. It’ll still take time, and it alone is probably not enough to get your facial hair growing to the degree you’re looking for.

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Frequently Asked Questions

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Here are answers to some questions you may still have about getting your beard to connect:

Do Beards Eventually Connect?

Beards can connect if they get enough time to grow. However, not all beards are capable of connecting simply through time. Sometimes, a person’s genetics is the reason behind a beard not connecting, and in that case, there’s little to nothing that one can do to fix the issue.

What Causes Beards To Not Connect?

Some things that can keep a beard from connecting are genetics, hormones, facial hair that grows slowly, naturally patchy beard growth, slow mustache growth, and lighter colored hairs. It’s often a combination of these things, so it’s best to use several solutions instead of only relying on one to connect your beard.

Is Stubble A Beard?

Stubble isn’t a beard. It’s its own thing that stands apart from a beard and a clean-shaven face. While not every guy can grow a beard, nearly every guy can grow stubble by simply not shaving, and it can look just as good as a beard when styled correctly.

How Do I Fill My Patchy Beard?

Filling a patchy beard isn’t very different from getting a beard to connect, so try following the point we went over above. Time is also significant with filling a patchy beard, as hair grows at different speeds on different parts of your face. So you may have to wait for more growth to fill your patchy beard.

Does Shaving Increase Beard Density?

Shaving does not increase beard density. The thickness and speed at which your facial hair grows won’t get faster from shaving it, but shaving can get rid of split ends and help your beard grow back with a cleaner look.

So, What Is the Best Way To Get Your Beard To Connect?

For as difficult as it sometimes is to get a beard to connect, I think the challenge in the process is something many people enjoy. It feels gratifying when you can finally look in the mirror and see a fully connected beard after weeks of giving it the proper care.

Even if your beard won’t connect fully, remember that you can always get it to a healthier state than it’s currently in, so devote more time and attention to your beard and try using high-quality products to give it a helping hand!